tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12540914.post115457100191637578..comments2023-04-08T05:20:52.887-04:00Comments on ELgiN StreEt iRReguLars: Let's talk about Polyamorycoyotehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13849975141730668288noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12540914.post-1155469954931614442006-08-13T07:52:00.000-04:002006-08-13T07:52:00.000-04:00well like it or no, alpha, beta, and poor old delt...well like it or no, alpha, beta, and poor old deltas are what we have to work with here in reality sexland...<BR/>reality works for some, and i do not think that polyamory could be for me, but go for it...i am curious to hear if it works to each partner's satisfaction...dude, if it would, then the facts will speak for themselves...<BR/>peace,<BR/>santiagoAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12540914.post-1155437830172957642006-08-12T22:57:00.000-04:002006-08-12T22:57:00.000-04:00an idealistic notion perhaps, but for me, communic...an idealistic notion perhaps, but for me, communication and honesty is key. i think a lot of mono folk are secondary to their partner's golf clubs. the notion of primary and secondary is not something i believe in.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12540914.post-1155328398263000732006-08-11T16:33:00.000-04:002006-08-11T16:33:00.000-04:00Coyote, you should ask the polyamorous group about...Coyote, you should ask the polyamorous group about this fascinating problem. So, is it then true that polyamorous groups are filled with dominant narcissists paired with masochistic submissives?Conch Shellhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06261764790552635523noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12540914.post-1155325048385785852006-08-11T15:37:00.000-04:002006-08-11T15:37:00.000-04:00Which suggests a possible issue with polyamory: wo...Which suggests a possible issue with polyamory: wouldn't <I>most</I> people want to be primaries? And would those self-selecting alphas really want hang time with people who are so self-effacing that they'd willingly choose to be fallbacks? I see potential for huge imbalances in self-esteem issues, here....coyotehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13849975141730668288noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12540914.post-1155270943088442552006-08-11T00:35:00.000-04:002006-08-11T00:35:00.000-04:00That video on the sidebar = definitely the wierdes...That video on the sidebar = definitely the wierdest thing you guys have ever posted. Also probably not far from the truth... i know you were jesting agatha, but regardless i don't think i could cut it, i'd want to be everyones primary :)bobhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07647157027022459930noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12540914.post-1155245818707360332006-08-10T17:36:00.000-04:002006-08-10T17:36:00.000-04:00Perhaps our next ESI meeting should discuss whethe...Perhaps our next ESI meeting should discuss whether we send one of us in as a scout to the polyamory group meetings. Someone that is good with meeting minutes?<BR/>Nice pics 4D.Conch Shellhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06261764790552635523noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12540914.post-1154937557046641262006-08-07T03:59:00.000-04:002006-08-07T03:59:00.000-04:00Those comics are wonderful..thanks! I recommend We...Those comics are wonderful..thanks! I recommend Wendy O Matik's book too: Redefining Our Relationships: Guidelines for Responsible Open Relationships. www.wendy-o-matik.com. In Ottawa there's a poly group who meet for discussions, dinners and such, just to be able to get together with like minded souls. A list serve exists for those interested. It says Ottawa Bi Poly, but there's actually a separate group for bi-poly folk as well, anyway, the link: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Bi-Polyamory-Ottawa/Amanda Earlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09059621442042833693noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12540914.post-1154922749495674632006-08-06T23:52:00.000-04:002006-08-06T23:52:00.000-04:00I've always believed in polyamory. However, I've n...I've always believed in polyamory. However, I've never found women who share my feelings. :(Jugular Beanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06826122052519654253noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12540914.post-1154912300933101572006-08-06T20:58:00.000-04:002006-08-06T20:58:00.000-04:00Chateau Poly: a saucy vintage, sophisticated yet n...Chateau Poly: a saucy vintage, sophisticated yet naive, with a long, highly complex finish...coyotehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13849975141730668288noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12540914.post-1154731734009268662006-08-04T18:48:00.000-04:002006-08-04T18:48:00.000-04:00Bob, I think that'd be a 'Male/Male/Female' dating...Bob, I think that'd be a 'Male/Male/Female' dating experience. Or something like it. I have no <I>idea</I> what publications the Short Guy is reading the personal ads in the backs of, to arrive at these bits of shorthand, but I'm betting it ain't the <I>Christian Science Monitor</I>...<BR/><BR/>And Dwarf, Agatha seemed to me to be stating that BaWL <I>did</I> go on dates -- just not <I>second</I> dates. That'd be too much like emotional involvement, I expect. Which, come to think of it, kinda militates against him being a polyamorist, 'cuz that'd, um, involve emotional involvement in multiples. And if he's so emotionally stunted that he flees from even <I>one</I> case, well...coyotehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13849975141730668288noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12540914.post-1154702366306972632006-08-04T10:39:00.000-04:002006-08-04T10:39:00.000-04:00Can i ask what MMF means?? I realize i'm broadcas...Can i ask what MMF means?? <BR/><BR/>I realize i'm broadcasting my naivety on these delicate subjects by asking such a question, but its better than not broadcasting my ignorance. Yay polyamory!!!, i for one will board the wagon and welcome you into this "crazy time" we live in.bobhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07647157027022459930noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12540914.post-1154693087206488912006-08-04T08:04:00.000-04:002006-08-04T08:04:00.000-04:00Bart/Wyatt/Lyle'd be a more effective stealth poly...Bart/Wyatt/Lyle'd be a more effective stealth polyamorist if he actually went on a date.4th Dwarfhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11078187712957062528noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12540914.post-1154691462007100682006-08-04T07:37:00.000-04:002006-08-04T07:37:00.000-04:00Hmmm. Eye-opening. But does this mean that Bart/Wy...Hmmm. Eye-opening. But does this mean that Bart/Wyatt/Lyle is not really a 'low down scum-sucking sociopathic liar', but merely a 'stealth polyamorist'? Just askin'....coyotehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13849975141730668288noreply@blogger.com